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What distinguishes a gay relationship from a straight one?

I have viewed many gay and lesbian relationships in my day. I have seen them initiate, build up, and occasionally, fall. It's a fascinating process, and I feel like they are all unique. Do they have any similar qualities though? Do most same-sex relationships go a certain way? How do they differ from the relationship between a man and a woman? I haven't been around too many of those, and the ones I've seen have been completely dysfunctional. Can someone compare and contrast? What differences or surprising similarities have you noticed?

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goatead1 | 1 year, 11 months ago
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Well same sex relationships can get a bad rep because a lot of the ones we are familiar with are based on experimentation, and not a solid choice.

While there are obvious differences, when it comes to a same sex relationship between two adults who are certain about their own sexuality it can be very successful and exactly the same as a traditional relationship.

I share the same experience as you with young and uncertain same sex couples. A friend of mine from Chicago and her girlfriend have recently moved to San Francisco. I know it seems cliche but really, gay people flock there. My friend was telling me wonderful stories of very successful adult women in monogamous long term relationships, this particular one being a softball coach and a college professor in her mid 30's.

In many ways when one of these situations turns out good, it is almost always more or a genuine relationship than what i experience with heterosexuals on a day to day basis. Many traditional couples don't understand each other or their partners physical needs the way same sex partners do, and they most likely never will. Its just easier to understand your own sex, why wouldn't their relationships be better?

Sometimes I wish I could be gay, i don't understand women at all but I'm just not attracted to men. To quote morrissey twice in one day on mahalo: "I always thought my genitals were a sick joke from god"

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umongoose | 4 months, 3 weeks ago
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Well lets see both gay and straight people have sex so that is the same, then both gay and straight people love each other and that is normal, then both gay and straight people have children naturally, so you might say they are the same except for some Christian and Muslim religions that want to make trouble between gay and straight people by saying bad things about them and driving a wedge between them to make trouble.

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